Song of the Day: 那誰

蘇永康的新歌, 今天不斷重複聽著
Wyman歌詞一貫的一針見血, 卻是一首療情傷的歌
又讓我想起一些過去 和現在...

真實永遠很殘酷
但我們還是要繼續走下去

P.S. MV很棒...找梁祖堯演真的很配!


那誰-蘇永康
你和那誰那天分手
你淚痕像條綠色的銹
頑固地種在眼睛一角　
直到永久　抹不走

但是浮游在生活亂流
你那新生你也必須接受
就算多悔咎　自責別太久
不要戀戀心裡那個傷口

渡日月　穿山水　尚在恨　那誰
誰曾無堅不摧　摧毀的廢墟
一早 變做你美好新居
創疤你不挖　亦不知有過在這裡

淚叠淚　風一吹　漸莫辨　那誰
連重提 往事也不再絕對
她怎傷害你　講起　你沒再吐苦水

有時你還覺得溫馨
這淚流像存在的表證
沒有恨過便更加彷似　
白過半生　冷清清

像突然忘掉尊姓大名
卻記得她教你差點喪命
是創傷太重　或覺悟太輕
使你不懂釋放怨懟的根性

渡日月　穿山水　尚在恨　那誰
誰曾無堅不摧　摧毀的廢墟
一早 變做你美好新居
創疤你不挖　亦不知有過在這裡

淚叠淚　風一吹　漸莫辨　那誰
連重提 往事也不再絕對
她怎傷害你　感恩　替代了那苦水

誰沒兩個致命舊愛侶
不見得就要聽到春天也恐懼
可以不唏噓　可以不心虛
放低跨過去

渡日月　穿山水　尚在恨　那誰
誰曾無堅不摧　摧毀的廢墟
一早 變做了滿山青翠
敏感處不碰　便不知你葬著心碎

若舊夢　不堪追　就別問　那誰
從何時　你學會灑脫面對
她怎傷害你　可否　就當做老天
完整你那沒挫敗波折一生之旅
功德圓滿　方可愛下去
帶笑歸去

After. 陳綺貞2011夏季練習曲上海演唱會

老師來上海, 在上海的我怎樣能夠放過上課的機會呢?

在世博裡的Mercedes-Benz Arena果然是世界級場館, 舞台超大而深可以有的變化更多.

所以同一個series既演唱會, 雖然我去年10月已在香港九展看了, 但在上海看更棒.
舞台的影像效果配著綺貞的音樂讓我好感動 :)

一樣的歌曲, 但每次聽都仍然被老師唱live的聲音感動了.

... 是那種感動得讓我整個身體都震動的反應.
我不能解釋為什麼, 但這就是讓我不能不看live的原因.


P.S. 盧廣仲做嘉賓真的超驚喜, 他好可愛呢. 而且唱live超棒啊...好想看他的演唱會呢!!



早已忘了想你的滋味是什麼
因為每份每秒都被你佔據在心中
你我一舉一動牽扯在我生活的隙縫
誰能告訴我離開你的我會有多自由

上海咖啡時光(1) - 丹 (Cafe Dan)

田子坊裡的丹咖啡是我在上海最愛的咖啡店.
這裡應該是上海最好的咖啡了.

日本老闆配中國老闆娘. (老闆娘是跟我同姓的 :P)
店子都是以木傢俱為主, 貫徹日本人的精細, 也有點家族小店的感覺, 跟田子坊的形象很配.

這店是我初到貴境時fc介紹的, 不只咖啡好喝, 連那裡的日式家庭菜也非常好吃. 也不要錯過甜點, 傳統cheese cake是我的最愛.

門口是老闆烘焙咖啡的地方, 會看到一箱一箱等待烘焙的咖啡豆. 這裡主要烘焙中深度的咖啡豆, 很香咖啡味但果味便沒那麼濃
(當然這是別人告訴我的, 我對咖啡的認識仍然膚淺)

這裡是有咖啡豆出售的, 他會在包裝上註明烘焙的日期, 保證新鮮. 如你想買, 最好先打電話看看你想買的咖啡豆有沒有已烘焙好的貨, 遇到他們差不多要烘焙的日子, 可能有些品種的咖啡豆會缺貨.

如果你愛喝espresso可能要失望了, 因這裡做的是日式滴漏咖啡(japanese drip).

有機會可以挑坐吧檯的位子, 而如果老闆老闆娘在的話, 就會同場加演整個滴漏咖啡的製作過程.

整個過程, 從煲水的水溫控制, 到沖水到漏斗的速度, 以及滴漏的時間, 都是很精細準確的. 日本人對每件事都實在認真得很. 光是沖一壺差不多2L的house blend就要超過半個小時了.
所以, 你知道為什麼香港不流行japanese drip而流行espresso了吧.

我的favourite是埃塞俄比亞(Ethiopia)的耶加雪菲(Yirgacheffee).
House blend也是不錯的選擇. :)

P.S. 因為VPN不能上載照片, 唯有回港再update照片吧.

 

 

丹咖啡Cafe Dan
地址: 泰康路248弄41號後門 (田子坊)
電話: 021-6466 1042

我的上海咖啡時光

上海相對香港來說讓我覺得最羨慕的, 就是仍能夠保存各式各樣的小店.

尤其這裡的小咖啡店, 都各有特色, 有sell環境有sell咖啡有sell概念的. 你想到的你想要的, 都總能找到.

隨著我在上海生活倒數在即, 決定盡我所能, 拜訪橫街窄巷的各式各樣咖啡小店...

馬家輝在"溫柔的路途"中寫道:
'每到一個陌生的地方, 首先要找的, 不是吃的. 而是附近有沒有好的咖啡廳, 那關乎我一天的精氣來源, 沒有好喝的咖啡, 我就全身不自在, 好像捱不過一天. 如果真的找不到, 那麼星巴克也行, 再沒有, 麥當勞頂著也好, 有時到了偏僻地方, 問有沒有咖啡, 他們說有, 端出來的卻是即溶咖啡, 一杯甜水, 一口都喝不下.'

在看馬博士這段之前, 我不知從何時開始, 就已經是這樣.
只是, 那管是即溶咖啡, 我也會喝.

咖啡對我已言, 早已遠超過生理需要.

就是馬博士說的, '是生活需要'.

from Putong-Cantonification to Communication Breakdown

今晚跟在上海的香港朋友吃了一頓很好氣氛的意大利菜
餐廳在衡山路上的舊式小房子
大概是香港HK$500/位的格調, HK$200/位的食物質素
但埋單只用RMB200/位

國內的說法就是性價比很高
(不要問我什麼是性價比這不是中文.)


今晚席間跟朋友談到的一個有趣話題

我們這些在國內待了一段日子的港人, 廣東話已不再'香港'了.
就是連自己聽了, 再等一下想一想良久但講出來時, 完全係反射行為. 我們已開始習慣以普通話來思考/交流.


想起好幾個星期前跟在國外的香港朋友傾電話...
我問他: '咁你今晚要加班?'
他聽不懂, 我重覆了同一句說話幾遍,
然後他終於反應過來: '哦, 你話OT...乜野"加班"呀...!'


我地開始互相在對方的對話找出這些詞彙...
例如'禮拜五'講成'週五', 'weekend'變成'週末', '上網search野'成為'向網搜尋一下'
而我地第一次聽到係無反應既, 往往要向對方講完, 再過多幾句之後, 先至'嘩一聲'又黎啦...', 又甚至之後由自己發現'哎呀, 好娘呀'...



其實語言係一種好有趣既東西, 同一個意思, 用上不同詞彙, 加上不同排列方式或助語詞, 便可以看出'你是從哪裡來的', '你一定在某某地方住了一段時間', 或者'你一定不是本地人'!


最常遇到的, 莫過於在國內那個地方也好, 只要我一開口說普通話(自問普通話已經算好, 雖不至於正宗, 一定會有人說’你是廣東來的吧...’, 簡直是萬試萬靈.


更不要說同一句說話, 用上相同的用語及語氣, 在不同人而言, 有著不一樣的解釋及意思吧.
Communication breakdown不只局限於不同的語言, 更加是人本身對於語言, 因著成長背景, 文化差異甚至個人經歷而有著不同詮釋的問題.



可能就是這樣, 要找一個能明白自己又能溝通的, 是這麼困難.
又或者能有一個明白自己所表達的真正意思的人, 是這樣困難.



找到了, 要好好珍惜.



P.S. 今晚過得好愉快, 謝謝你的分享.
也是待在上海這地方的港燦才能明白 =P

Song of the Day: 每天都是一種練習

This is my Motto...
and here comes the Theme song.


Of course it's from my beloved Cheer Chen :D


Work hard, for my every day.



每天都是一種練習 - 陳綺貞

好幾天了沒有你的消息
才發現其實想著你
當愛被緊緊的鎖在心底
自由就張開翅膀飛出去

還須要一點幽默的心情
才能面對你失望的離去
快樂的氣氛也許能暫時逃避
卻又讓傷害更徹底

我被恐懼深深的囚禁
我沒有力氣逃出去
每天都是新的練習
用今天換走過去
用明天換走失去的

beyond good and evil

自己說分開的時候, 我也情願承認我是個壞人, 不值得你愛.
讓你憎恨是最容易讓對方放手的方法.

但, 愛不愛, 就是善與惡之分嗎?
如果他/她真的不再愛我,那就是真的'惡'嗎?
因為不愛而離開, 是種惡嗎...?



Quotes, from Essays in Love

'It is surprising how often rejection in love is framed in moral language, the language of right and wrong, good and evil, as though to reject or not reject, to love or not to love, was something that naturally belonged to a branch of ethics.'

'I learnt that humans stood in a relation of negative liberty towards one another, duty-bound not to hurt others, but certainly not forced to love one another if they did not wish......one cannot blame a lover for loving or not loving, for it is a matter beyond their choice and hence responsibility - though what makes rejection in love harder to bear...... is that one did once see the lover loving...... the lover loved, perhaps only a short while ago, which makes the reality of the claim I cannot love you any more all the harder to digest.'



P.S.現在終於明白當年他跟我分開之後的狠心, 可能這是他讓我傷害最少的方法...

just the way (i am)

it may be conindence, i know.

but just feel so warm, with you two unknowingly approaching me for chats tonight, which i desperately needed. :)
and i just want to call you guys tonight!

thanks both...


thanks for reminding me my attractions, and be myself no matter whom i face...


b, i really mean what i said tonight, yea you are irreplaceable. do consider my proposal, okok? :P

That's what I want for now...

There are people in and out of your life...

Some leave without a trace
Some keep dragging making you annoyed
Some remain in your heart forever, although you will never meet again
......

What we do will definitely affect one another, directly or not, I know
that's why we keep on hurting others while being hurt by others

True, and I can't control other's acts nor words...
seems helpless, but... I can control myself, that's what I can do



I don't want to hurt you any more, you have enough from me...


And I don't want to get hurt, that's why I step back miles away from you.



and now... for me, I want to be on my own
Stay strong, stay tough
and I'll be fine.

Song of the Nite: 晚安

很細膩的歌詞...
每一句都讓我想起某天晚上, 睡前的感覺

可能是疲憊工作過後的晚上
與朋友聚會分享過後的晚上
與那時的他一個寧靜的晚上
獨個兒有點迷惑的晚上
......

也是今天的這個晚上


是時候要睡
晚安.




林宥嘉–晚安

天　空白著夜晚
城市一片燈火擾亂
風　吹過看不見的天堂
是誰還在忙碌的追趕
晚安　腦筋都鬆綁
忘掉所有痛苦悲傷
讓所有聽不見的吶喊
隨著黑夜一起埋葬

月　亮在你心坎
可曾把你的夢點燃
心　疼你每一步的成長
擦乾眼淚變得更勇敢
晚安　卸下了翅膀
輕輕打開夢裡的窗
路　儘管依然會有阻擋
讓我陪你一起飛翔

夢　想去的地方
因為不變所以簡單
愛　如果早已經被遺忘
我的歌聲不會有傷感

晚安　靜靜地安躺
躺在可以放心的床
夜　因為有了夢才寬敞
因為有你　所以溫暖

Song of the Nite: Fix You

Can't switch off tonight...
probably it's kinda adjustment taking place.

I need to be strong, to keep moving on the road completely unknown to me...


Song for tonight -
and found out I didn't listen to Coldplay for ages.



Fix You - Coldplay

When you try your best but you don't succeed
When you get what you want but not what you need
When you feel so tired but you can't sleep
Stuck in reverse

And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can't replace
When you love someone but it goes to waste
Could it be worse

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

And high up above or down below
When you're too in love to let it go
But if you never try you'll never know
Just what you're worth

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

I see a stream down your face
When you lose something you cannot replace
I see a stream down your face
And I

I see a stream down your face
I promise you I will learn from all my mistakes
I see a stream down your face
And I

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

Life must go on, no matter what

For the time being, please let myself stay away from you, as far as i could.

my life is, for the moment, on my own still...

sounds sad, but i'm sure that there is that someone waiting for me not far far away...
not necessarily you, though.


thanks princess, i dun like to hear your words but it's always the way life should be.

keep learning, Y


i should know how to cheer myself up, no need for other's shoulder for now.

My famiy trip is over...

It's another experience traveling with family... feel bad that my parents get so exhausted to follow my itinerary, next time I should keep slow and adapt their pace...

However, it's contented as I can feel papa & mama so happy with bro and myself accompanying them, this is the happiest thing for all of us.

And it's a meditation journey for myself as well, when we visited to buddist island, Pu Tuo Shan.
... there are things I should just LET IT BE. No expectation on others but just expecting myself. A good reminder for myself anyways.

At times... they were noisy, they re-arranged my apartment which pissed me, they were making me mad at some time of the journey as they didn't follow my schedule.

But when they are gone, when my apartment becomes quiet as usual....

I miss you, lovely bro, papa and mama

Well, it's time for all of us to back to our routine.

Indeed, we should keep it up and have an annual family trip from now on... need some quality time with my beloved family.

:)