朋友

身邊的人都說, 是我自己捱過去的.

但是沒有你們撐住, 我呢段日子一定難行十倍.


雖然朋友間不應該說謝謝, 但我真的好感激在我身邊的好朋友.
我知道我之後還會哭還會突然想起某些往事而心情跌至谷底, 但我知道這些這些總有一天會過去.

我仍然要你們的提醒啊! :)

I'm EGG the...

I am EGG26.

This year, it's the 34th EGG...
Really feeling old @.@

@.@

I and my neighbouring colleagues finally got our CRT monitors replaced~~~ waited for sooo long as most of the colleagues in my team have got their monitors replaced long long time ago.

It's a very nice 17" LCD~ We were given larger dimension ones as we have to handle lots of images (photos/aerial photos/sketches/blahblahblah...)~~ A good excuse for us to get a nice one!

Finally, my eyes get a better working environment ^^

Tuen Mun Dinner

Very warm Dinner~
I love the home-made bread veryveryvery much!

Thx Uncle, Auntie, Edith & Billy (and "Sweet Potato" too)! :P

P.S. I'll try the home-made bread later~

星期六早上~

原來星期六早上除了廉價戲飛, 行街街都無咁多人! :D
我話既星期六早上, 係指下午一時或以前...

P.S. The Simpsons 真的好抵死, 必看!!
(我看的是英文版, 聽說粵語版也不錯呢)

P.P.S. 十分感謝M的安排, 等我下次帶你去食手打烏冬!!

One More Step to Beijing2008!

Haa... Surprisingly I'm shortlisted to 2nd round for Recruitment of Beijing Olympic Games!

Maybe all people get into this 2nd round.. :P
Beijing, I'm coming!!

靚女

我覺得, 有BB既女人最美麗 :)

Song of the Day: 百分之八十完美的日子

這是我最喜歡的一首歌...
我們都在選擇我們最想要的...
但到了最後, 我們又剩下些什麼?


百分之八十完美的日子 - 陳綺貞

我捕捉 精彩的畫面
可是一閉上眼 顏色就褪掉了
我穿上 最舒適的T恤
可是一脫下來 身體都僵硬了

我選擇 我最想要的
可是一個人了 反而笑開了
我丟棄 對我最好的
可是一關上燈 全部都回來了

直到有一天 我徹底昏睡了
我太累了 我放開了
直到有一天 我失去了
太矛盾了 (太狼狽了) 眼淚掉下來了

Question to Earth Science Buddies~~

Question Time:
What is "鮞粒"?

答中有獎~

屬於夏天的星期天

筲箕灣的魚旦河, 大浪灣海灘的陽光, 紅磡原汁原味的漢堡飽
好一個愉快的星期天 :)

謝謝西瓜哥哥+士多啤梨妹妹 =P

Song of the Day: Nothing Lasts Forever

It is so easy to see
Dysfunction between you and me
We must free up these tired souls
Before the sadness kills us both

I tried and tried to let you know
I love you but I'm letting go
It may not last but I don't know
Just don't know

If you don't know
Then you can't care
And you show up
But you're not there
But I'm waiting
And you want to
Still afraid that I will desert you

Everyday
With every worthless word we get more far away
The distance between us makes it so hard to stay
But nothing lasts forever, but be honest babe
It hurts but it may be the only way

A bed that's warm with memories
Can heal us temporarily
The misbehaving only makes
The ditch between us so damn deep

Built a wall around my heart
I'll never let it fall apart
But strangely I wish secretly
It would fall down while I'm asleep

Tough we have not hit the ground
It doesn't mean we're not still falling
Oh I want so bad to pick you up
But you're still too reluctant to accept my help
What a shame, I hope you find somewhere to place the blame
But until then the fact remains

Everyday
With every worthless word we get more far away
The distance between us makes you so hard to stay
Nothing lasts forever, but be honest babe
It hurts but it may be the only way

一期一會

一期一會, 我們一生只有一次相遇的機會, 過後便不再遇上...



近來有很多同事相繼離開公司, 而且都是比較談得來的.
其實我非常幸運, 每次都可在工作的地方能遇到合得來, 談得來, 甚至能交朋友的人.

衷心祝福將要/已離開的你們, 願你們工作及生活愉快.
雖然將來未必能見面, 但要能保持聯絡啊! :)

Enjoy Being Alone :)

After "Secret"

Anyways... We should treasure our times together...

...
No matter it was sweet or bitter
I did enjoyed a lot.

Nevertheless, I'll keep moving on :D
Bygone is bygone!

For this month...

I suddenly realised that I've done so many things in this 4 weeks:

- Quality time with my many friends (I love u all!!!)
- Wonderful chats & times with my family members
- Reading Books
- Photography
- Badminton
- Drama/Movie go-er
- Buddism Course
- Gym (>2 times per week)
- Being alone (althought it was too little)
- Making myself look nice (it takes quite some time though!!)
- Other mo liu things... (they are too mo liu, I won't let you know :P)

From this month, I knew how strong I can be, and I am the only one who can help myself to get through.
(But credits should still go to my friends around me, who give me endless support!!)

In the coming months, I hope I can enjoy more time being alone.
I know I can do well!

無常

世事無常.
我們只可以做好今天的自己, 不要計較將來有什麼結果.

希望我身邊的人(包括自己)都能放下一點.

好好抓住今天, 好好為自己生活.

上文化中心大劇院~

本來這幾個星期都係我既話劇週, 點知俾一D特如其來既事打亂晒... >.<

之前錯過了"爆谷殺人狂", 又因為無心機浪費了其實很好看既"一期一會", 今晚終於可以好好欣賞"暗戀桃花源"啦!

雖然不算十分好睇, 總算係有D驚喜 :)

下一齣, 梗係睇謝君豪啦!! 好期待~~

媽媽

今天早上上班之前, 跟媽媽擁抱.
好像是咁大個女第一次...

媽媽話, 好快就無事啦, 不過, 下次一定要清醒D.

媽媽, 我愛你.

Lazy Me

Have a nice chat tonight with my old boss dated back in my government years...
Now I have a much clearer ambition on my career, and what I should acquire in the coming years.

Suddenly found that I was too lazy in the past few years... I just enjoyed myself but forgetting what I would like to achieve.

I know I'm not those kind of gals who wants marriage and children only.
Be good to myself. Go for what I would like to be!

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Please feel free to take a look at my recent shots, comments are highly welcomed!
Sai Kung Lion Club
Shek Kip Mei & Neon Lights at Nathan Road

幸福就在身邊

這段時間,我真係知道我係屋企既皇帝女.

當有事情發生,爸爸,媽媽,細佬都會撐住我.
當然仲有其他親人啦... 佢地唔會七嘴八舌,反而陪住我靜靜去面對.

其實,幸福就在身邊.

End.

Finally... all is over.
He should be out of my mind from today onwards.

----------------------------------------------------
W & B, you are my best best best friends forever, thanks for being with me for this long long night :)

W, I still need your hug and shoulders.. at least for sometime more!
B, my hug is available to you if you need :P

The last day of July 2007

Thanks god! This long month is coming to an end.

To celebrate this, I have a great dinner with my lui~
(yes, I'm your mama again!)

August is coming!
A new start, a new page of life is waiting for me.
Carpe diem!

Gym!

My first gym session in 2007...
I feel so great after excercise!!

I think I can keep going, which is good for my health!


P.S. Special thanks to my companion..hehe
Your enthusiasm will keep me going! :)

2007年7月28日.星期六

好久沒有family gathering了. 今天感覺特別溫馨.

看著三叔於日本上高地的相片集,那些山、樹、湖、古色古鄉的建築物...又有點與京都繁華的氣息不一樣,真的好美呢!
下次的日本之旅,非松本莫屬!

....下次去旅行,誰會做我的伴?

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關於今日的奧運會志願者筆試...... 真的好久沒有考作文了... @.@
能入選第二輪面試的話, 我的運氣應該是不錯的 :P
(我還接受香港電台的錄音訪問呢!)

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My very first Rollei35 trial, dated back in February2007
(Thanks PW for lending me his beloved Rollei35 at that time!)

Rude!

I have to say sorry to my colleague or summer student, who were being replied crudely by me when they try to ask me questions in these days.

When I am confused due to my own matter, I really cannot endure some stupid question, or questions that arise because you haven't thought the matter thoroughly.

I wish the helpful, nice Y-ly is coming back next week.
You gotta watch and see. :)

(Hopefully, you would still THINK before you ask...)

Song of the Nite: 分手快樂

我無法幫妳預言　委曲求全有沒有用
可是我多麼不捨　朋友愛的那麼苦痛
愛可以不問對錯　至少要喜悅感動
如果他總為別人撐傘
妳何苦非為他等在雨中

泡咖啡讓妳暖手　想擋擋妳心口裡的風
妳卻想上街走走　吹吹冷風會清醒的多
妳說妳不怕分手　只有一點遺憾難過
情人節就要來了　剩自己一個
其實愛對了人　情人節每天都過

分手快樂　祝妳快樂　妳可以找到更好的
討厭過冬　厭倦沉重　就飛去熱帶的島嶼游泳
分手快樂　請妳快樂　揮別錯的才能和對的相逢
離開舊愛　像坐慢車　看透徹了心就會是晴朗的
沒人能把誰的幸福沒收　妳發誓妳會活的有笑容

妳自信時候真的美多了

夏日炎炎...

次次都係大熱天時先至出site...
好彩林村都叫做有d瓦遮頭... @.@


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Maggie, 謝謝你的長途電話...
來香港一定要找我呀! :)

我很好~但仍需努力!

好幾天沒寫blog了.
突然發覺,一些感受還是留給自己,又或者對身邊最要好的朋友說.

不過,我也想跟大家說:"我正在好起來,而且是以極快的速度好起來哩! 但我仍要一點時間, 我會繼續努力!" :)
我也恢復我的工作效率了~

其實,自己快樂與否,絕對視乎自己對事物的看法.
放下執著,人便沒有憂愁及煩惱了.

P.S. 這幾天很沈溺於攝影,能跟一班愛好攝影的同事一起去影相,好開心! :)
還要感謝C幫我拍的照片,我好喜歡呢!

Song of the Nite: 安寧

夜的寧靜 是時候好好反省
月的陰晴圓缺就像我的心
夜下著雨 天在哭泣 不知道何時才放晴
我忽然非常想念你

你的背影讓我失去了理性
你的放棄讓我迷失了自己
你的離去就像刺青 永遠烙印在我的心
是如此痛 而如此的美麗

我努力的想哭泣 卻哭不出淚滴
一次又一次的灰心 才發現早已麻痺
終於發現自己 已經不在乎你
原來分手也能如此安寧

2007年7月19日.星期四

0855
I'm not forced to let go as in the previous days, but I have let go starting from this minute onwards.

It's hard. It's pain.
But I know... I can get over no matter how hard it is.

1700
My heart still aches, but slowly I can adapt this aching feeling...

1845
Thx Bay. Enjoy your trip!

2130
今晚吃多了一點! :) Thx Jas & Leon.

還有新的 '情侶手觸', hehe.
要好好享受生活!

2330

Work efficiency is too slow in the past few days - wylie will resume tomorrow onwards!

2007年7月18日.星期三

1400
其實我是幸運兒,每每能在工作的地方認識這麽多朋友


1500
心裡隱隱痛的感覺, 你能感受到嗎?


2230
很舒適的一頓晚飯(雖然很難吃)
10年了, 很開心我們仍可以保持聯絡 :)


0000
對,分手要大方...
Thx B, you are the one who understands me the most :)

2007年7月17日.星期二

0515
心好痛
還好,我是會傷心的

1020
衷心的祝你幸福

1100
其實相同的故事每天都發生
並沒什麽大不了

1600
每個人都會因經歷而成長
你也一樣,變得懂得關心人了.

2200
不好意思,要你們多吃
下次我會大吃一頓的

去L'OCCITANE買了Lavender Candle, 今晚一定要好好睡一覺呀wylie!

2300
不要再想

2007年7月16日.星期一

0200
Sorry for calling, but I can't control. Hope you can understand.

0615
Can reach you finally...
雖然我明白你不想聽電話,但我只是想告訴你,我這3年裡已長大了,不再是那個情緒化的wylie.
我真的不肯定我現在太理性的態度是否最好的處理方法,我只是想令自己快點離開憂愁.
你的決定,可能對我都是一個重要的人生經歷...
不開心的感覺還是需要時間去平伏的...
我會努力的!!

0730
今日體重: 103lbs
4天少了10lb...

1400
好像真的放下了...

1740
記得報導說過北歐及加拿大等地方到冬夫的時候因為日光時間太短,有些人容易患上抑鬱症,自殺率很高.
從公司的落地玻璃看着太陽慢慢降下,心裡又湧現不愉快的感覺...
不過,已忘記了為什麽不快樂了...

2015
Brian,謝謝你陪我去長沙灣吃麻辣米線,雖然沒什麽胃口,這裡的米線永遠是最好吃的.
到這裡吃米線,也沒有什麼特別感覺...突然,有些事晴好像己經發生在很久很久以前了.

從來沒有買六合彩的意欲...就看看我的運氣有多差吧!

2145
一個人坐車還是難受,但我想信很快會沒事的. (其實,我從來都是一個人乘車回家...)

2345
謝謝這幾天陪伴我的朋友們...
"如果沒有你,日子怎麼過" :)

2007年7月15日.星期日

1130
Still empty but I've already run out of tears.

1330
Finally, my basic need - hunger is coming back (although I'm still eating too little)

1500
Papa, mama & bro, you are SOOOO good to me

New way ahead planned~

1730
原來,我不經不覺改變了.wylie真的長大了

Bay: Trust yourself. you'll do well!! We should both add oil and I'm sure I'll be back to the cheerful wylie when are back from trip!

1900
Sun rises, sun sets. The world is the same although my mood swings.


2200
Good exercise - I'm really feeling good after sweating!

2400
不知道現在的思考方法是否最好,只知道這樣我可以快些好起來.

鼓勵~

Jas, 謝謝您...
I'll be tough~~ add oil wylie!

相愛? 相處?
兩個人究竟是要相愛還是相處?
曾經 為了相愛放棄相處;也曾經 為了相處放棄相愛.
人大了 兜兜轉轉 還是發覺要選擇的話 該找一個相處的人.
愛的感覺 我深信靠雙方努力 能得以歷久常新沒有相愛 是因為付出不夠罷
但相處兩個方向不一價值不同的人 怎麼走在一起.勉強改變 回首過來 那是你嗎? 你快樂嗎?
也許相愛很難 就難在其實雙方各有各寄望怎麼辦
_____________________________________________________
你需要的話 隨時走過來 讓我抱一抱 和你一起紅著眼.
我知你很快會熬過來 再找愛你的Mr. Right. 加油.

My dearest friends

It is the most harsh moments in my life I need to face, and I am not sure how long will it take to cure the wound he has made on me.

Most importantly, I should thank all who have given their great warm helping hands to me. I never knew I have so many of you around me, giving me endless support.
What I can say is THANK YOU and I love you all!!!

And you all have played an important role of giving me the courage to stay positive. With you all I knew I am adorable gal and I will find my Mr. Right someday. :)

I will try my best to stay positive. I'm sure I'll get recovered soon with all of your great power!

3 years 1 month 10 days

12 July 2007. End of my 4th relationship.



I need your support. Hope I will be fine soon.

070707

07年7月7日, 我身邊有三個朋友都認為是特別的一天...

於是, 回辦公室完成手頭瑣碎的工作, 美味的花生醬蛋撻, 一頓很好的晚餐, 還有兜風遊車河, 就是我今天的"慶祝活動"!

Bonus...

From originally staying for 2 weeks, to now staying for 2 months...
it's really a bonus for me :)



P.S. I like your "Proposal plan with 2K budget"... to be continued... :P

Film of the week: CASHBACK

關於這齣戲既影評/介紹太少, 好容易錯過的好戲.

關於失戀, 關於忘記, 關於發現身邊美好的事物 (但有American Pie式笑位穿插其中...)
"Sometimes love is hiding between seconds of your life..."


Highly recommended by y-ly!

Thanks :)

I am just HAPPY ~

Thanks TC!!

近朱者赤

等待昌昌回來的心情, 比想像中平靜很多.

我真係越來越似大昌啦...

"Young People"

當有個人係差不多放工時收到某女歌手既演唱會DVD之後無比興奮兼且當晚即刻睇完而且表現十分滿足, 你會唔會覺得佢好年輕?!


..........




... 但係, 我真係因為我呢個行為而覺得自己仲好後生!!!



... 唔係, 應該係話我跟本就係年輕人!!!



:P


P.S. 你唔係唔知個女歌手係邊個掛....

皮質醇

這兩個星期的工作真的很令人洩氣.. (原來上司的支持是十分重要的!)

正當以為自己的情緒智商有所提高,沾沾自喜既時候..
對屋企人/男朋友發忟憎, 好明顯仍然係皮質醇作怪!

要提高自己既EQ, 從現在情況來看我還是要加一把勁!! >.<

......

咁大個女第一次喝醉, 那些想吐的感覺並不好受...

如果係唔開心而喝醉, 應該更加難受...

下次都係唔好飲咁多啦~~ :P

陳綺貞@PolyU

久違了的綺貞老師, 今晚終於來香港了!!



















除了結他及她的甜美歌聲外, 最驚喜的就是手風琴~~超棒!
希望她多點來港開演唱會啦! =)



P.S. 我隔壁的男生好攪笑, 當大家睇到情緒高漲,企晒起身手舞足蹈既時候... 佢堅持緊繞雙手係胸前, 全場都唔拍手,非常好笑!!

中大情色版事件

有趣的評論...

轉自明報副刊2007年5月13日
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周日話題﹕如果情色版事件在港大發生

【明報專訊】又來了，又是發生在中文大學的故事，上一次是桑拿浴，今次是玩「情色Vs風月」的文化通識。
三十七年歷史的《中大學生報》，因為出了個「情色版」，在最近一期，有幾條令人不舒服的問題，闖了禍。
本來，學生刊從來都是「未夠成熟」，「青澀生硬」，「眼高手低」，「閘前脫腳」，「少不更事」，「稜角摻雜」，「意氣用事」，眼界立場手法品味飄忽游離，徘徊迷途於少年與成人的世界之間，在狹縫中鬥爭，在矛盾中成長，等待少年世界的認同，成人世界的認可。
然而，在殘酷的現實中，往往事與願違，如果不是給冷淡對待，便是給狠狠痛罵。今次輿論對《中大學生報》的「圍毆」，儼如成年人與青少年的道德戰爭。
《明報》編輯來問：如果中文大學的「情色版事件」，發生在香港大學會怎樣？我覺得這個問題很有趣。

如果你是港大校長
如果發生在香港大學，記者會去找校長徐立之教授，他也可能會走出來表態，說：「我不會回答假設性問題。」實際上，這亦無可厚非，事件的確不是在港大發生，這只是假設。
記者下一步理應會去找學生事務長周偉立博士。周博士一向形象開明，他可能會說：「我會留意學生出版刊物的內容，但只要不違法，大學沒有理由干預。對幾個本來是同學開點玩笑的題目，我們毋須過分緊張。」
答案雖然是公關口，但卻得體，也維護了現代大學應有的開明與寬容形象。
記者下一步，大抵還會找教務長、學生會會長、校內校外的著名畢業生……但人們最想問的應是：「情色事件」如果在港大發生，哪份刊物是它最可能的載體？
我嘗試不循何謂「情色」，何謂「淫賤」，何謂「大學生應有品味」的角度，去討論事件中誰對誰錯的濫調，而嘗試從學生刊物的生存空間，去觀看與插嘴。
大家很自然想到——《學苑》，斷估不會是校方多得叫人眼花撩亂的官方刊物。雖然沉寂多時，這卻是《學苑》的宿命角色。

學生刊物自治傳統
《學苑》比起《中大學生報》歷史更悠久，它的「校園／市場定位」是「香港大學學生會的刊物」，這是其優勢，也是它的包袱。它一直奉行編輯自主政策，沒有老師捉手仔，或最後拍板。跟對家的《中大學生報》一樣，經費主要來自學生會，但學生會的經費主要來自學生，所以它們不是單純的免費報紙，因為在繳交會費時，學生已付了費用，所以它們並非真正免費刊物。
《學苑》於一九五二年創刊，原名《Undergrad》。
五十年前的港大跟今天迥異，是全英語的世界，除了晚上在宿舍的圍爐夜話時講華語外，基本上是英語的世界，沒有人想到港大學生會「官方刊物」的語言不用英語，但到了一九五九年，它還是改為中文刊物，但接受同學英文投稿。出版語文的選擇，曾引起當年學生的激烈討論。自一九六八年起，編委會獨立於學生會之外；又於一九七三年經學生全民選出，當時中國大陸正值文化大革命，而香港則仍在一九六七年左派暴動的餘波中顫抖。
在校園內體現一人一票式民主，於當時，甚至現在的香港，仍是相當前衛的做法。因此，我同意中大學生不如搞一次公投——儘管暑假快到，但可讓《中大學生報》完成今次的歷史使命。
在所謂上世紀七十年代的「火紅年代」，《中大學生報》和《學苑》放棄原來擁護建制的傳統，加入新左派(或新毛派)的出版潮流，蛻變為年輕人反叛的出版物，在較長時間中，它們是社會派學生的陣地，跟佔據學生會的國粹派學生對幹。
在薄扶林出版的《學苑》，與落戶在遙遠馬料水的《中大學生報》，皆人材輩出，曾是香港學生運動兩面鮮明的旗幟。
到了七十年末期，經歷了多年高度政治化，愈來愈多學生對學生刊物的內容取向看法分歧──其實是不滿，在一九七九年吳俊雄當總編輯的一年，常有學生把新出版的刊物擲回編輯部辦公室，以示對艱深的政治文章的抗議。

「壞品味」由來已久
在當時學生刊物亦試圖用「壞品味」與Clich 來表達對殖民地與資本主義的不滿，例如一九八○年的《學苑》，有一期把當時港督麥理浩的頭部，剪拼到筋肉墳起的大隻女人身上。
本來無心插柳的插圖，卻引起黃麗松校長注意，召見總編輯呂大樂(現職中大社會系教授)，在沏泡頂級龍井香茶之餘，黃麗松提醒呂大樂，麥理浩是大學校監，理應尊重，不宜拿之開玩笑。呂大樂今天難忘黃麗松當年的龍井茶齒頰留香，也對黃的循循善誘歷歷在目。
呂大樂領導的編輯部，正式把在一九七九年轉為月刊的《學苑》帶上雜誌化的路向，這個路向一直沿用自今。雜誌化可令刊物提高趣味，但也增加了編寫內容的難度，容易流於眼高手低與任性出位。
然而，在五十年的《學苑》歷史，超過大半時候是平淡而欠缺戲劇性，在《學苑》官方網站「學苑大事年表」中，整個八十與九十年代的記錄中，只有一九八二年的「血書事件」與一九九○年的「中東戰爭封面事件」，跟是漫長的低潮歲月，對需要依靠與製造話題的後現代傳播世界，這是致命的缺點。
接下來，便是二○○一年的「我表你(宣傳口號)事件」。這可能是歷史上《學苑》有份構思這句引起粗口疑惑的「我表你」口號的同學，後來被特區政府聘任為政務主任，之後《學苑》不斷重複「缺莊」(沒有同學肯參加編委會)、「脫期」與「摺埋」(停刊)的命運。
從那句富爭議——「幾搞」的口號，也看出《學苑》與《中大學生報》有同學認為是「歷史文物」的「老牌學生刊物」，如何在後現代的世界中掙扎求存。
其實，豈止《學苑》與《中大學生報》如是，港大其他相對受歡迎的學生辦刊物，像同是免費派發的《校園雙週》，也於二○○四年停刊。

Soft-Porn
在世紀之交的前幾年，校園與傳媒流行一種笑話，最受大學生歡迎的是《一本便利》或《便利》之類的商業印刷媒體，以《便利》為品味軸心與標準，去評價其他刊物的可讀性與品味素質。
當然，這種說法可能只是傳媒為促銷宣傳散布的錯覺，又或不過是部分傳媒人的自我膨脹，以訛傳訛，習非成是。
我為了釋疑，曾問過一些「同學仔」是否屬實，得到的答案是：「不會自己購買，但不抗拒閱讀。就算要閱讀的話，也只會在宿舍，上課時給同學看到你的背包中有這些Soft-Porn(軟性色情刊物)式本地刊物，會『死』。」
坦白講，《便利》這一類本地Soft-Porn今天亦已Out。大學生究竟對什麼才會感興趣？
學生刊物生存空間窄
這是散亂——多元化無焦點的時代，以港大學生為例，校園生活太忙碌，上課、功課、考試、導修、上網、拍拖、兼職、Mentorship(師友計劃)、舍堂活動、Exchange Programme(海外交換生計劃)……對這類已淪為「垃圾物品」的學生刊物興趣愈來愈低。或者，他們根本沒有時間。
面對這種後現代的世界，連大型商業媒體也要艱苦經營，何是這些小型學生刊物——雖然它們沒有經費壓力，但缺乏讀者，刊物淪為自說自話，始終令舉辦者「冇癮」。
另一方面，由於經費與管理權皆學生自治，大學官方要「控制」這些經常在出位內容上擦邊的學生刊物，並不容易。就算是學生會，也對「意見不同」的伙伴，除非事事訴諸公投(學生全民投票)，否則亦無能為力。
唯一對付方法，似乎是要負責的學生「上身」，要他們負刑責之餘，更要面對被趕出校的風險。
對學生而言，這未免有陰濕之嫌。到了今天，曾當學生會幹事或《學苑》編輯的「履歷」，無助於他們畢業搵工升學，當這些刊物編輯還要承擔這些風險，還有哪些同學會有興趣？面對這種環境局面，並沒有受過專業訓練，也欠缺經驗的學生，如何重建學生刊物的傳統與支撐其愈來愈狹窄的生存空間。

大學維持校譽的動力
有人問：為何今次「情色版事件」會在中大發生？最直接答案，因為《中大學生報》是在各大院校中，碩果僅存稍具規模的學生刊物。
事件也令人聯想起幾年前的「新亞桑拿事件」與各大院校的「淫賤迎新」，對保守的大學校方一直有潛在的威脅(擔心有損校譽)，人們都愛在大學生道德雞蛋中挑骨頭。大學生道德淪亡的新聞能讓早已妖媚墮落的大眾文化，有五十步笑百步的心理補償，「淫賤迎新」則滿足大眾的偷窺慾望。
有人戲謔：香港大學是「殖民地大學」，中文大學是「封建大學」，科技大學是「美帝國主義大學」，諸如此類。要「維護校譽」，不如說是要延續大學「品牌效應」，是在競爭愈來愈激烈的大學市場中生存的關鍵。有適當品牌，大學才能吸引到最多捐款，取錄成績最好的學生，這正是大學要努力維持某種校譽的動力所在。

校譽的政治正確性
當然，你會質問：究竟所謂校譽，是為了提高捐款者的捐款興趣而營造，還是為了學生的利益作考慮？兩者是銀圓的兩面，還是當水遇上油的關係？
我們可以這樣說：當一個人或一個團體自信不足之時，也是最計較形象的時刻；當一所大學最緊張其校譽的時候，也是管理層心理最為脆弱的日子。
近年本地大學面對的危機管理，說來說去，玩來玩去，都是在政治正確性的層次上糾纏，不願讓一粒老鼠屎弄髒一窩粥。所謂政治正確性，其實不外乎是指循規蹈矩的角色扮演，模稜兩可、左右逢源的形象。誰嘗試出位，便要被槍打出頭鳥。
在幾年前的港大「鍾庭耀事件」後，各大學的管理層都凡事先求自保，事事如履薄冰，在找尋捐款上進取，但在校風管理上保守。
不管是大如「教院風波」(其實是由抗拒政府行政干預變成人事糾紛)，還是小至「情色版事件」，都是在這種大學文化的背景下發生。對當權者的提示：小心駱駝背給最後一根稻草弄塌，毋須為幾個大學生的情色戲言，而撕破建制的道德假面。

文﹕趙來發
編輯：梁詠璋

>.<

我的心情仍會因一些已經與我無關係的人及事而大上大落.

真的要好好管理自己的情緒...

Confirmed

Confirmed.
Gotta stay in Australia until end of this year...
......

But seems there is a lot of valuable experience to gain in the coming project~
TC, hope you will enjoy the next task in Australia! :)

共諧連理?!

原來康文署有時都幾有taste架!

要共諧連理不妨參考參考:
http://www.lcsd.gov.hk/wedding/b5/index.php



P.S.唔好問我係咪好事近,只不過係無意中發現.... ~.~

Drama! Drama!

雖然冇人陪,我都係膽粗粗買了飛一個人去睇加場:
http://www.wtheatre.org.hk/onceinalifetime/index.html

仲有話劇團,今年有黃磊,蘇玉華同埋謝君豪,真係不得了....
http://www.hkrep.com/tc_chi/season/2007-season2-1.html
http://www.hkrep.com/tc_chi/season/2007-season3-1.html

Why?

Why can I only remember all the tiny bits of memories with you...
while you will just remember all the stuff in your work?

Sometime I'd like to be you, without any emotions at all.
But in that case I'm not the wylie you used to know

Why there's so much to think about?
All I want is just a peaceful sleep... without you.

Song of the Day: 我懷念的

近期愛上了孫燕姿, 特別喜歡這首歌...

我懷念的
我問為什麼　那女孩傳簡訊給我
而你為什麼　不解釋低著頭沉默
該相信你很愛我　不願意敷衍我
還是明白你已不想　回首

想問為什麼　我不再是你的快樂　
可是為什麼　卻苦笑說我都懂了　
自尊常常將人拖著　把愛都走曲折　
假裝了解是怕真相太赤裸裸　
狼狽比失去難受

我懷念的　是無話不說　　
我懷念的　是一起作夢　
我懷念的　是爭吵以後　　
還是想要愛你的衝動　
我記得那年生日　也記得那一首歌　
記得那年星空　最近的右手 　
在那的胸口　誰記得　(誰忘了)

我懷念的　是無言感動
我懷念的　是絕對炙熱
我懷念的　是你很激動求我原諒
抱得我都痛
我記得你在背後　我記得
我顫抖著　記錄感覺洶湧
最美的煙火　最沉的相擁

誰愛的太脆弱　誰過頭愛了
誰要走我的心誰忘了那就是承諾
誰自故自走　誰忘了相處過
誰讓愛變沉重　誰忘了要給你溫柔

(我懷念的 )　我還有想要愛你的衝動
我記得那年生日　也記得那一首歌
記得那片星空　最緊的右手　最暖的胸口

我放手　我讓座　假灑脫
誰懂我多麼不捨得
太愛了　所以我　沒有哭　沒有說

我們不是公主

男朋友的好友長期在內地工作, 老婆為台灣人, 因處理居留事宜需留港一週, 人生路不熟, 又沒有老公照顧, 我當然盡地主之誼, 代為照顧照顧, 順道帶她遊覽香港.

跟她相處數天, 談起她放棄台灣不錯的工作, 嫁到香港, 又因老公要到內地工作, 要跟隨往大陸居住. 我心裡不禁問自己, 我願意為一個我喜歡的人放棄工作、家庭、 朋友, 去一個不熟悉的地方重新生活嗎?

看到大部份的香港女孩, 要男朋友管接管送, 要求這要求那, 倒頭來要她們為所愛的人付出, 又有多少個願意?

再看看身邊男士的'異國情緣', 身旁的女伴都體貼非常, 又不會對男友過份管束, 雖然背景不同, 仍能相處愉快.

如果自己都不肯為人付出, 請不要要求別人為你付出.
我們, 都不是公主

Self Motivation

Just have a nice dinner with my dearest 'si hang' tonight. It's so nice to have an in-depth chat about our career~

I was being pushed to complete my MSc & started preparing my professional assessment. Actually, deep in my heart I knew I need to start doing all these stuff, but I'm just lack of the self motivation to do so. I am getting more and more lazy!

Anyways, this is the career I have chosen. I have to go for it!!
Si hang, thanks for your encouragement!! :)

好!

好耐無睇戲啦,呢兩日一連睇了"落葉歸根"及"波叔出城：哈薩克鄉下佬去美國搵著數"兩齣電影,感覺好好. 兩齣電影都好好笑,亦好有意思.

P.S. 其實一個人睇戲,都唔係太差! :)

新年快樂

今年我聽到最多的恭賀說話,就係"下年到你派啦!",上升比率達到50%!! ~.~

但係,究竟有冇人問過我,係咪真係想結婚呢?
點解大家都係覺得年紀差唔多,拍拖有一段時間,就一定要做呢d指定動作??
我都想結婚既,只不過我唔想因為其他人覺得要做我就去做呀,而且我都未預備好去成立自己既家庭...

到有一日,當有個我喜歡既人很想我做佢老婆既時候,我會好樂意的.
請給我一點時間...

Alone in Valentine's

... really feeling lonely :<
(although I've adapted to be alone after TC has left HK for more than a month...)

Be strong, Y-ly!!!

生日快樂!

我們一起的第三個生日:
2006年11月28日, 我身處肇慶
2007年1月27日,你在布里斯班.

希望我們的第四個生日, 我們能一起歡渡!

Mr. Client, can you be considerate?

Dear Mr. Client,

1. Although Sunday is public holiday we still have people on site answering your miscellaneous queries, and please don't assume our entire office is working solely for you;
2. We try to be cooperative but we are not your secretaries and servants (we are not supposed to be your photocopying men/women, draughtsmen; and help to manage your other consultants);
3. If you want to save money, please give us TIME to sort out things. Drawings are not cartoons/doodles that come out in seconds.

Yours,
Your little consultant

[The above is a little cry-out from a small potato working in a consultant firm, who has just gone mad due to client's nonsense request in this stuffy & cold Sunday morning. Please be patient with this poor gal...]

For YOU :)

For you....
Sometimes we want to get rid of the truth, the facts that we don't want to admit.
But life's never easy rite? With all the bitterness can we enjoy the happiness life is going to bring about.
It's time to let go... And be nice to yourself~ :)


嫉妒 - 陳綺貞
愛上了你　愛上了你的一切　
揮不去的是那個　沒有我的世界
心中的一個結　緊緊的鎖住我　
微弱似風中不安感受
該如何面對你溫柔眼神　當心中有了疑問
而我是不是你的唯一　而你是不是真的在乎我

請相信我　請相信我的心　
就這樣地墜入幸福的深淵
嫉妒你的快樂　它並不是因為我　
真心退縮在黑暗角落
該如何傾聽你溫柔聲音　它並不只屬於我
而你是不是真的在乎我　而我是不是你的永久

Our meet 5 years later~!

It's really nice to have re-union with classmates again!!


We've all grown up a lot... more mature, more considerate... yet our practice never changed!! :)
I'm also looking forward to the "red bombs" for the years to come~ I'm happy for you!!

If you still see my blog...

... You are welcome to take a look at my photos taken in Japan~!

http://community.webshots.com/user/wylietsang

1st B-day away from Home

My first birthday away from home... so far so good, and I really feel I'm getting older and older...
-.-"

Thanks my colleagues for spending the wonderful day(and nite) with me, I should thank you all~ (esp. call from Shanghai & Shenzhen~~ hee :D)
Apart from experience on China job, it's a bonus to know more colleagues from all walks of life and make very good friends with you all... i treasure all the great times with you :)

Singapore

This is the first place I've ever visited that I found there's nothing interesting.

The more place you've been to, the more you treasure your hometown.
Now I'm very proud to tell the others Hong Kong is a great place, and there must be something that suits your taste.

The courage to let go

It's not always easy to let go, especially you need to admit you can't do anything to improve it.

And I'm lacking the courage to let go of something, something I thought I have put it aside for some time but I never did.

Bless me have the courage to let go, and wish I can always remember to tresure all the things I have at present.

一個人的日子

在外地工作，難免要受點想思之苦，不只是男朋友，還有爸爸媽媽細路＆朋友ｅｔｃ．．．
在香港,總要朋友陪,好像一個人不能過日子. 儘管如此，我暫時已適應一個人在內地的生活了.
在家裡,同爸媽的說話很少，又嫌他們嘮叨，離開家，隔著電話，反而跟家人說話多了．

希望這次到外地工作的機會真的令我獨立一點,給更加學會一個享受一個人的生活! :)

Work @ China

It's been almost 2 months staying in China for work. It just gives me a brand idea of how China is working in the engineering field.

With the vast growth of China in the recent years, I can see that its 'software' hasn't got a lot of growth at all... which may not be a healthy situation.

I hope Chinese citizens can be cautious of their current situation - so that every Chinese can enjoy the comfort and wealth out of the growth - but not only a tiny portion of them.

我要...

...多點享受一個人的時間

幸福的感覺

就是忙碌了一整天, 眼睛也瞪不大的時候, 仍有人會聆聽我的嘮叨.
而他也會與我分享他一天發生的事情

平淡, 但充實,快樂.

Sometimes love just ain't enough

Just wanna share this song with you who keep an eye on my blog... the lyrics are quite meaningful...


SOMETIMES LOVE JUST AIN'T ENOUGH

I don't wanna lose you
but I don't wanna use you
just to have somebody by my side
And I don't wanna hate you
I don't wanna take you
But I don't wanna be the one to cry

That don't really matter to anyone, anymore
But like a fool I keep losing my place
And I keep seeing you walk through that door

But there's a danger in loving somebody too much
And its sad when you know its your heart you can't trust
There's a reason why people don't stay where they are
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough

I could never change you
and I don't wanna blame you
Baby you don't have to take the fall
Yes I may have hurt you
But I did not desert you
Maybe I just wanna have it all

It makes a sound like thunder
It makes me feel like rain
And like a fool who will never see the truth
I keep thinking something's gonna change

But there's a danger in loving somebody too much
And its sad when you know its your heart you can't trust
There's a reason why people don't stay where they are
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough

And there's no way home
when it's late at night and you're all alone
Are there things that you wanted to say
Do you feel me beside you in your bed
there beside you where I used to lay

And there's a Danger in loving somebody too much
And it's sad when you know its your heart they can't touch
There's a reason why people don't stay who they are
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough
Baby sometimes love... it just ain't enough

好可愛...

我叫wylie, 唔係'西瓜哥哥0個表妹'...

執著

其實我真的固執, 常常為小事抓狂.

有沒有治固執良方?

Warm Feeling

So warm and sweet!
(it's toooo sweet anyway)


thx bay and tc :)

烏龍王

My digital camera was left near a wet, opened trial pit for two days, and I didn't realise!!!!

<-- This is a Trial Pit


Luckily my cam is still functioning. -.-"


Canon is... great!

Id / Sugerego / Ego

孻叔說我工作了3年多仍然停留在 job satisfaction, 及在意別人意見, 非常naive.

但係, 要練成爐火純青並不容易呀....

尤其我覺得仍然有很多東西要學習, 有technical的, 有待人處事的, 要不被他人影響真的很困難.

還有, 工作久了, 嚕囌越來越多... (是我的性格問題)

我, 仍然是低等生物

Bottega Veneta

I just like this store.

No monograms, pretty sales (even those +30 sales supervisors), nice and warm greetings to all customers (no matter what nationality you are), and most importantly, no 'pigeon eyes' if you are just window shopping

This is the first store I've encountered, where the sales who greeted you all the way in the store, and without buying anything, open the door for you and say goodbye when you leave.

I really understand how a place/brand's image can change with whole heartedly greeted sales.

I'm lovin' it!!

念舊

唔知點解, 一個月總有幾日愛想當年. (記住咁係同女性生理週期全無關係架 :P)

話說今晚有諗起d中學同學仔. 其實除左自己最老友個幾個之外, 其他已經冇晒聯絡, 又或者從朋友既朋友既朋友口中得知大家既近況.
唔經唔覺, 離開中學都好耐啦. (好快就到我會考十週年... 好恐怖!!!) 真的好想約d同學仔出黎見0下面.
好, 等我坐言起行, 就今個暑假!!

My 10km Results

Race no.: 90301
Position:
- Overall: 9306
- Sex: 1645
- Cate-gory: 504
Time:
- Official: 1:11:36
- Chip: 1:10:16

With just 2 training sessions before the race... my result is not that bad rite?!
:P

Marathon Trial 1

I've lived here for almost 10 years, but this is the first time I had a run near my home.
Trial 1


Hope I can keep it up (and run further and for a longer time... ) :)

Time flies...

I had a farewell dinner with my ex-colleagues tonight, as one of them will be seconded to Singapore for a project there.

Time really flies, we met 3 years ago, and now we all work in different places (actually just in 2 companies!)
It's not long ago when we once worked together, but now we are all having different ways in our career.

J, My best wishes to you~

上海 . 蘇州 . 2006

在寒山寺前,聽不到凌晨的鐘聲,卻在距離寺前的上天放起莫名其妙的煙花,2006就是這樣開始了.

中國的變化真的是一日千里,今天的上海已和我五年前所看的大大不同.
到了蘇州,喜歡它的文化氣息,卻發現現代生活也正吞沒這個地方.

不過,能和陳先生和伊珊一起旅遊,真是很愉快的.
他們也實在好客呢!


希望大家在2006年過得踏實、豐富.

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My iPod! :<

拾遺不報, 拎我iPod又拎埋我個USB!!!

邊個拎我部iPod去消遙快活,不得好死!!!!!


最慘就係連一張有佢既相都未影過,佢就唔見0左...鳴鳴
仲有個cutie既iPod袋子...



...希望執到你既人識欣賞我選擇既音樂,咁我個心會安樂d... :<

MV

多謝cheongcheong的提醒...
會彈結他的女生真的很酷~

http://www.cheerego.com/v02/06-frame/index.htm

After 17

I was thinking of this song on my way back home...

I've realized we were in TST just now.
Everything appears to be the same, but, we are a bit different from yesterday...


一步一步走過昨天我的孩子氣
我的孩子氣給我勇氣
每天每天電視裡販賣新的玩具
我的玩具是我的秘密

自從那一天起　我自己做決定
自從那一天起　不輕易接受誰的邀請
自從那一天起　聽我說的道理
When I am after 17

一步一步走過昨天我的孩子氣
孩子氣保護我的身體
每天每天電視裡販賣新的玩具
我的玩具就是我自己

自從那一天起　我自己做決定
自從那一天起　不在意誰的否定
自從那一天起　聽我說的道理
When I am after 17
When I am after 17

~After 17 - 陳綺貞

Birthday

October is a "birthday month" for me. There are so many friends I knew who were born in October!

And today is a special one's birthday, the one who had once so important to me.
I have forgot today is his birthday for a couple of years, and nearly forgot he was once my 'prince'. :)

But it suddenly comes to my brain in this busy morning...
And this is the time I've recalled my tiny bits of memories about him. His pager calls (wow, pager already extincts~~) were really a good support for me, when having the nightmare ALs. And I will never forget my childishness and naive things I did.

I think he's the first one to have a 'special status' in my heart. Thanks for your memories.
(By the way, it seems I'm not so important to him, haha!!!)

It's so nice that we can still keep in touch (although we really seldom talks, or even meet!).
Happy birthday, my special one!

煲碟

一日非聽一次不可, 已經整整一星期了!
第一次聽嫌太rock, 但越聽越有意思...

突然很羨慕像綺貞一樣讀哲學的人...

最愛:
80%完美的日子
Self


華麗的冒險

Taipei, I'm coming!

It's really great to take a break before the start of the new job.

Taipei, I'm coming, with flu!! (Just caught flu today ya :<) Just hope it won't rain so heavily....

Last day

This is my last day working here, surprisingly I didn't feel so sad leaving here. I'm really looking forward for the new job. Wish me good luck!

But I really miss my colleagues here... It's so great that I've made so many friends in the workplace, in which I've never expected!

Thanks for the memories you have given to me, please keep in touch!


My last day as an EGG

綺貞 . Macau

喜歡綺貞的live, 真的很正!

更棒的是, 原本在露天廣場的免費演唱會, 竟然因天雨關係, 改為在劇場舉行, 等了兩個半小時的我們更可以坐第二行!!!
澳門文化中心的工作人員又安排一個室內的房間讓我們等候, 換了在香港一定由得我們在烈日下曝曬/風吹雨打...
那裡的工作人員真的十分好人, 演唱會後第二天我們再到那裡央求綺貞的poster, 二話不說便給了兩張! :D

綺貞老了, 更有女人味, 但歌聲依然動聽. (還有她新燙的曲髮~)
期待她的新CD, 還有3天~~


my lovely 綺貞

運氣

今天,我終於明白什麼是運氣.

有時不只是三成能力,七成運氣... 如果有十成運氣,有能力與否已變得次要.

不過,上天是公平的.
我信有得必有失,只是我看不見而已.

Happy yet NERVOUS

Glad that my training is coming to an end in one month's time.
Hurray, no more log book and reports!

Yet another challenge is coming - I'll be in a new job afterwards.
Though really happy, I'm getting a bit nervous after accepting the offer. In the past 3 years, I could seek my colleagues' advice and comments, and they endure my mistakes and wrongs as I'm still a graduate trainee. I'm not sure if I can meet my new boss's expectation and do well on my own.

I really need more confidence.
I should trust my ability, rite?
Cheer up, wylie!!

New Page of Life

As another two of my lunch buddies will leave the office, we had a dinner tonight as some kind of 'farewell' functions.

The dinner was crazy. But we all enjoyed and had a wonderful night. Frankly, we just laughed all the way and didn't know what exactly we ate!

Sadly, they were leaving (some already left) coz of current office policy, but I'm glad that they have their new career, and starting a new journey of life.

Good luck to all of you~

I'll miss our times in GEO!

Album of the Month

Although I no longer have summer vacation, I am really having summer vacation when listened to this album: sunny and relaxing.

The simple arrangement with acoustic guitar gives you a sudden feeling of enjoying the sea breeze at the beach, escaping from the heavy work...

Sunshine is wonderful if you don't need to work!! (especially struggling with awlful site work under the burning sun, oh, I'll out to site tomorrow again!!!!)

Highly recommended: Good People, Belle


Jack Johnson - In Between Dreams

我的豆瓣!

It's fun to have a review on movies, music and books you've come across.
I just love this idea!

I work very hard for the past 2 days, just to input the film I've watched, and music I've heard.
There's still a lot of movies, songs and books I'd like to read...

http://douban.com/people/wylie/

to be continued... (for the rest of my life)

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory!!!!

I have always longed for a movie for this wonderful fiction, and it comes to reality!
It's just soooo great!
I think Tim Burton is the right person for directing this film, who is well-known for his strength in managing highly imaginative stories.
Johnny Deep exactly matches my image of Willy Wonka: weird, strange-looking but smart!

Roald Dahl is my favourite children fiction writer, his stories are simple but always to the point. Thanks to Quentin Blake, you can extend your imagination of the characters through his illustrations.

It would be so great if we can really have: ice-cream that won't melt under the sun, chewing gum with all taste, and the amazing chocolate factory with Oompa-loompas (surely better than Disneyland...)

It'll be showing on 11thAug, still have a month to wait...

Movie website:
http://pdl.warnerbros.com/wbmovies/charlie/flashsite/index.html
(the flash is mavellous!)

Roald Dahl's Official website:
http://www.roalddahl.com/

P.S. By the way, my nickname in ICQ comes from one of the character in this story, do check it out! :P

話劇

五年後再上劇院看話劇, 遙遠的親切感又回來了.

多年前因為謝君豪愛上話劇,五年後因為一張地鐵海報令我有再回到劇院.
以前只看有謝君豪,蘇玉華,及羅冠蘭的,那是fans效應.

這次只有四個話劇團演員,一個佈景由頭做到尾,也一樣好看.
這麼簡單的場景和角色也只有話劇可以做到.

其實,只要有故事,演員交戲,比那些無聊電視劇好看十陪.

http://www.hkrep.com/tc_chi/season/2005-season2-1.html

Finally...

Finally I've got a long weekend without work!
Just sooo great to sleep as much as I could!

Just haven't written for some while. I was busy reading a new book, my review will be coming soon~ so keep check here!

Hope everyone's enjoying this great weekend (with sunshine, finally!)

Finally... lovely clouds!

誰在寬容誰?

This is a forward message received long long time ago. Sometimes, we are doing exactly the same thing towards our friends, or even someone we don't know...

一天晚上，有個女孩在機場等候飛機，離起飛還有幾個小時，於是她在機場商店找了一本書，買了一袋甜餅乾之後找了個地方坐下。　
她酷愛讀書，所以聚精會神的沉浸在書?，卻無意中發現，那個坐在她身邊的男人，竟未經允許就從他們中間的袋子?抓起一兩塊甜餅，塞進嘴裡。
她試著迴避這件事，避免在大庭廣眾發怒。她繼續讀著書，並使勁嚼著餅乾， 看著時間─ ─當那個偷餅賊繼續消耗她的甜餅的時候。時間一分一秒地過去， 她也越來越氣憤，她想:“我要不是這樣寬容，一定當眾讓他出出醜，可惡的偷吃別人餅乾的人！”　
每當她拿一塊甜餅，他也跟著拿一塊。當只剩下最後一塊時，她猜測他會怎麼做。他的臉上浮現出善良的微笑，並略帶拘謹，他拿起最後那塊甜餅，並把它分成了兩半。　
他遞給她半塊，自己開心的吃著手中的另一半。女孩從他手中搶過那半塊餅，心想：“天啊，這傢伙還挺有意思，他無禮的吃了我的餅乾，連聲謝謝都不說一句。”
當她的航班通知登機時，她如釋重負地鬆了口氣，收拾起自己的行李走向門口，並拒絕回頭看一眼那個吃她甜餅而且忘恩負義的傢伙。　
她登上飛機，舒適的坐在座位上，! 然後找到那本快看完的書，當她把手伸進皮包時，她意外而吃驚的摸到了一袋沒有開封的甜餅！！！！　
如果這是我的，她後悔地自言自語道，那剛才另一包就該是他的，而他卻盡力與我分享本屬於他的甜餅！　
可是已經太遲了，她無法道歉了。飛機進入雲層，她望著厚厚的雲層，心情是那樣的沉重和難受，那個忘恩負義的偷餅人竟然是自己。
生活?， 很多人養成了習慣，不斷在以懷疑的眼光審視著身邊的人，哪怕那些和自己一點關係也沒有的陌生人。我們甚至還懷疑自己是否受到了那些善良陌生人的“挑釁和侮辱”。在我們深深地厭惡這些身邊人的時候，是否會想到， 我們也許誤解了他人。…